91传媒

Himanshu Sharma and Shibani Krishnatraya

Since I joined 91传媒, I have been blessed to meet people who always help me improve my speaking skills. Over time, I realized that assisting others is a priority for all members鈥攈elping fellow 91传媒 runs in their blood. When I was a new member, I was assigned a mentor, since 91传媒 can be overwhelming at the start. That person was Himanshu Sharma.

He has an unflinching faith that the mentor-mentee relationship is not a one-way road, but a two-way street. We learn and grow together. In fact, Himanshu says I鈥檝e made him a better performer鈥擨鈥檝e helped him improve his vocabulary and the content and structure of his speeches.

Just as the mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell, Himanshu is the powerhouse of confidence. Somehow, he has channeled that confidence to me as well. Under his guidance, I learned how to own the stage, be upbeat and engage my audience.

For my second 91传媒 speech, one of the best speakers in my Delhi 91传媒 club was also speaking that day. I was petrified, terrified, horrified鈥攁ll the synonyms under the sun for 鈥渟cared.鈥�

I rushed to my mentor for calming advice, and he told me: 鈥淭he speech is yours; preparation is yours; confidence is yours; the stage is yours; the audience is yours, and the caliber of your presentation is yours. Just go up there and do your best. The rest will fall into place.鈥� His words took hold of me鈥擨 delivered my speech and won the Best Speaker award.

In June 2018, I was elected as my club鈥檚 vice president membership for 2018-2019. I had to run against six other competent and efficient contenders. I cannot deny that I was nervous. Himanshu was the one who gave me confidence and support.

Himanshu still helps me stay confident as I go about completing my officer duties, even now as I am vice president education. My mentor is a constant pillar of support, always available to answer any of my questions and the perfect guide when I feel lost at sea.

Shibani Krishnatraya is pursuing a degree in English from Delhi University. She joined Delhi 91传媒 of New Delhi, India, in February 2018.

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