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It is a terrible thing when everyone agrees on the problem and no one can agree on the solution. Such is the case with the lack of a universally accepted gender-neutral third-person singular pronoun鈥攊.e., a word that refers to both sexes without resorting to awkward neologisms like his/her, she/he or the truly pathetic s/he. No one likes using these. They break up the rhythm of a sentence, they grow monotonous with repetition and they鈥檙e just not the elegant solution that, say, 鈥測ou鈥� was when it replaced 鈥渢hee,鈥� 鈥渢hou鈥� and 鈥測e鈥� in one fell swoop. 鈥淵ou鈥� can be singular, plural, masculine or feminine, and it stops people from sounding like characters in a Nathaniel Hawthorne novel.

鈥淪he/he鈥� and its feeble variations don鈥檛 do that. They鈥檙e jerry-rigged, stop-gap measures at best, like holding up your pants with a safety pin. Yes they work, but 鈥� they just don鈥檛 look right. Writers sometimes try to get around the problem by simply alternating 鈥渉is鈥� and 鈥渉er鈥� in equal numbers: The surgeon will usually make his first incision with a No. 10 blade, although occasionally she will opt for a No. 12. Here, the writer has achieved political correctness with a sentence requiring major surgery.

Yet another quick fix involves repetition of the non-gender-specific noun: The student went to the student鈥檚 room to get the student鈥檚 homework. This anodyne approach is clearly designed to offend no one, provided you don鈥檛 count professional philologists, who read a sentence like this and weep openly.

Finally, there is the use of 鈥渢hey鈥� as a singular pronoun, as in The patient should be told at the outset how much they will be required to pay. This is the most common solution but certainly not the best. When you have to use a word meaning 鈥渕ore than one person鈥� to refer to one person, you have one big mess.

I must say, however, that if we still lack a satisfactory binary pronoun, it鈥檚 not for want of trying. As proof, we go to a master鈥檚 thesis written by Kelly Ann Sippell in 1991 entitled Solving the Great Pronoun Problem, in which Ms. Sippell catalogues all the attempts to create a gender-neutral pronoun over the last 150 years! They have included words like hes, hiser, heer, he鈥檈r, herim, hesh, heesh, hir and many more鈥攏one of which caught on (thank God).

One almost did. It was the word thon, a contracted form of 鈥渢hat one,鈥� invented by a man named Charles Crozat Converse in 1858. Funk and Wagnalls went so far as to put it in its dictionary, along with this definition:

鈥淎 pronoun of the third person, common gender, meaning 鈥榯hat one, he she, or it鈥�: a neoterism proposed by Charles Crozat Converse, and apparently complying with the neoteristic canons, since it supplies an antecedent blank, obeys a simple and obvious analogy, and is euphonious.鈥� If that鈥檚 a definition, then I鈥檓 a heesh.

Thon was eventually dropped for being not so much a word as a proposed word that nobody actually used. How could you, when examples for using it were: 鈥淭hon went to the park鈥� and 鈥淭hon threw the Frisbee to thonself.鈥� Shoot me now.

Not surprisingly, the British have succeeded where Americans have failed. They do have a non-gender-specific honorific that is widely used in the United Kingdom today. Who knew? The word is Mx, pronounced Mixter, Mix or Mux, used by people who prefer not to have their gender known, on everything from driver鈥檚 licenses to passports to bank accounts. The only problem with Mx is that these two letters can also refer to Mexican domain names, email server settings, Emacs commands, camera models, motorbikes or graphing calculations. Hence, users must be highly specific lest their Google searches take them to websites for mariachi pants or the Minuteman-III land-based Intercontinental Ballistic Missiles.

So, what鈥檚 to be done? Well, if you follow the Chicago Manual of Style, nothing. The editors of that august publication have concluded that any solution is bound to offend somebody, so they simply leave you to your own devices. I get around it as best I can, using 鈥減olice officer鈥� for policeman and 鈥渕ail carrier鈥� for mailman. But if I write about a college freshman, am I obliged to call his female counterpart a freshwoman? Not unless I want a slap in the face.